Katy Lifestyles & Homes August 2009
hat would you do if you knew your time was short? Katy author Rick Weber’s new book, Pink Lips and Fingertips, answers this question through the life of Jeri Ivison Paholek. Jeri is born
with a rare heart
received a heart-lung transplant. Would she receive the organs she needed in
time?
Much of the book is set in Katy, where Jeri settled with husband, Daryl, in
1995. The book describes how they joined Grace Fellowship United Methodist
Church in 1997, when it was still in its infancy; how Jeri became involved in
the youth ministry, started a few prayer ministries and ultimately became
regarded as a church elder; and how she ultimately relied on her church family
to provide wisdom and discernment when the time came to pursue a transplant.
Weber has forged a reputation for telling human-interest stories with
compassion, pathos and perspective. In 1997, he was a top-10 national finalist
in the Associated Press Sports Editors contest largely because of a column
about a Miami Dolphins front-office assistant who died at age 23 after battling
cystic fibrosis. Two years later, he was a top-10 national APSE finalist for
best feature story. He also won the 1994 Casey Medal For Meritorious Journalism
for a package on teen-age runaways,
“A Tragedy, Not a Romance,”
defect called common ventricle and given a death sentence by the medical
community. Instead of retreating inward and playing it safe to extend her years
or embarking on extravagant global adventures, Jeri chooses to impact the world
—whether by corresponding with convicted bomber Timothy McVeigh on death row or
starting a prayer stand immediately after the Sept. 11 attacks.
“In our world today, it seems like we’re on a journey down a mine-filled road of negativity—bank bailouts, immoral financiers swindling investors, companies downsizing or
folding, the fear of a swine flu pandemic,
” Weber says. “Deep inside, every one of us has a desire and a need to be inspired, to be
captivated, to truly believe in the goodness of humanity. Jeri
’s story—her indomitable spirit in the face of death—lifts us out of today’s caldron of confusion and allows us to shut off the commotion. I think this
book comes at a critical time. You will not approach life the same way after
reading it.
”
Jeri’s heart defect meant that the septum was entirely absent at birth and the two
ventricles merged to form a single chamber. It resulted in primary pulmonary
hypertension (Eisenmenger syndrome), in which the lung
’s vessels are constricted, forcing the heart to pump harder to overcome the
resistance and causing irretrievable damage. As she got older, all of her
extremities were blue. One of her greatest desires was to have
“pink lips and fingertips.”
In 2003, Jeri was believed to be one of the oldest living Americans with her
condition who never had transplant surgery. But her organs were weakening. She
was given a week to live unless she
that was full of gripping stories of life on the street.
Pink Lips and Fingertips is unique because it touches the reader with powerful, poignant storytelling.
It delves deeply into her personality and faith, explaining why, knowing more
acutely than most of us that every breath truly could be her last, she didn
’t become bitter or engage in selfish, worldly pursuits. It tells the remarkable
story of how Jeri, facing death, transformed the Stanford University Medical
Center staff with her love and concern for others.
“Rick Weber has always searched for greater understanding of his subjects and the
obstacles they face,
” says Yahoo!’s Jason Cole. “Finding solace and inspiration in their tales goes beyond merely the details of
his career, but permeates who Rick is on a personal level. It
’s again obvious in his best work to date, Pink Lips and Fingertips. Jeri’s story isn’t just for those of faith, but for those who simply need to understand the will
to survive and thrive in the face of life-threatening challenge.
”
“This is an inspiring story that recognizes all heroes don’t march in parades or speak before crowds,” says the Miami Herald’s Armando Salguero. “Jeri is petite and literally suffers from a broken heart. But she refuses to
disconnect from God, who authors a supernatural miracle activated by love,
courage and faith.
”
Weber, 51, graduated from Penn State with a B.A. in Journalism, has written more
than 10,000 newspaper and magazine articles and contributed to
Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Golf Book. He lives in Katy with his son, Austin.
A book signing will be held on Aug. 15 from 1:30 p.m.-3:30 p.m. at Katy Budget
Books, 2450 N. Fry Road in Houston. A book reading and Q
&A will begin at 2 p.m.
Katy Author Tells Life-changing Story of Woman With Indomitable Faith
Book signing set for Aug. 15 at Katy Budget Books
Pink Lips and Fingertips tells the story of Jeri Ivison Paholek, who was born
with a rare heart defect.
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